“You should be grateful he cheated respectfully and keeps his side chicks in check. Yeah your man sleeps with other women but he comes home to you. At least he’s not letters his other women disrespect you. You should be grateful.” This mess has been all over social media. The subject of infidelity has been popular lately. The question of “can cheating ever be done respectfully?” has been raised. The answer is hell no. Infidelity, and disloyalty, and dishonesty can never be done respectfully. If you cheat on your partner or are cheated on is it deliberate disrespect. A good man doesn’t cheat. Never set the bar as low as cheating “respectfully”. Good men are who they say they are. They don’t lead double lives.